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Funerals are deeply emotional, and though intentions may be good, certain phrases can cause unintended pain. Here are four things you should never say at a funeral:
One: “They’re in a better place now.” Meant to comfort, it can dismiss someone’s grief or make them feel like their pain isn’t valid.
Two: “At least they lived a long life.” No amount of time can truly make losing someone easier. Saying this may minimize the loss.
Three: “I know exactly how you feel.” Grief is personal and individual. Comparing your experience to theirs can unintentionally shift focus away from them.
Four: “Everything happens for a reason.” Though intended to offer solace, it can sound dismissive or cold, as if the death is being justified.
In moments like these, sometimes words aren’t needed. Being present, offering a hug, listening quietly, or saying “I’m so sorry” often means more than anything else.
